Success Knows Boundaries

No, not the boundaries that limit your success, but the boundaries that hold you and build resilience and enhance success. They are the ones that help you to be more authentic and ultimately happier. As children we are held by boundaries, the healthiest and happiest...

You Thought Nobody Was Watching

A client recently moved to a newly refurbished hotel as General Manager, and asked us to come and stay soon after he arrived to check it out from the guests’ point of view. I found it so different to just staying at a hotel, one suddenly becomes hyper-aware, noticing...

You Can’t Please All Of The People

It is an absolute truth that you cannot please all of the people all of the time and yet, at times, although we know this intellectually, we do try. Is it that we really do not want anyone to be unhappy or is it more that we want them to feel good about us? It is...

What Are You Missing?

I seem to spend a great deal of time working with people who actively resist being in the present moment. Often much of their behaviour is unconscious, worrying about what might potentially be coming their way or what they might miss.    Many of us seem to have lost...

Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

It is so hard sometimes to push ourselves to be more than we fear we can be. Sometimes we sit unconsciously in our comfort zone doing just enough and wonder why we are feeling bored or unfulfilled. The comfort zone is where everything feels familiar and achievable,...

Fight or Flight?

One of my amazing clients, who now due to the wonderful nature of this job I can count as a friend also, is off for a tough interview today. The final part of a serious selection process for a very serious job. She is beyond good and yet with all her talents and...